‘HAVE SELF-RESPECT AS A WOMAN’

I believe that as a Christian you should have self-respect. You need to respect yourself. Respect your body, your heart, and who you are. Not allowing any person to touch you nor see your nakedness. We know what the Word requires from us. This generation of today lacks self-respect. Men have realised that it is easy to get a woman. When you want a woman you can get her no matter what. I believe that prostitutes have run out of business because sex is easily attained anywhere. I believe that in the olden day’s prostitutes were booming in business. Women at that time they would preserve themselves.

Even when they were not born-again it was hard to get a woman. But today you can go to a pub to drink and after that, you are going to sleep with someone. You do not need to go and sleep with a prostitute. In that itself something is wrong. Women need to be careful about whom they allow into their lives and have a relationship with. It starts with self-respect. You need to have that pride to say that no any man can come into my life. If he wants to come into your life he must work hard to get you.

Nowadays it is easy for a lady to open her legs and that is the life we are living in. Most women have become very cheap. Women love beautiful and expensive things but they become cheap themselves. Women have become cheap and have settled for less. They have settled for less that even a man who cannot afford to buy them things they open their legs for him. I am not saying that women should look for men who will buy them expensive things but I am saying that they should at least wait for a man to sacrifice something. Not a man who will sacrifice his backroom or his time to be with you but a man who will sacrifice his life just to be with you. Many women do not want to settle for men who will take care of them emotionally and financially. Women need to go back to that state where they do not want anything that is just cheap but should want a man who will sacrifice everything for them. Women are attracted to men who are full of poverty and full of laziness.

Many youngsters who are surrounded by poverty there is early pregnancy. It seems like poverty attracts pregnancy. It seems like there is a spirit in women that attracts poverty and that spirit wants them to stay in poverty. The things that were needed to be put in place before you can start a family are no longer put in place. People are having children without securing financial stability. When we speak about financial stability we speak about men who are hustlers but women seem to settle for men who are lazy. Men are good at running but not good at taking care of their children.

Sisters run away from men who promise you marriage but they do not do it. Real men if they want to get married they do it. There are men who will promise you marriage but end up coming up with excuses. These are the men that you need to run away from especially men in Christianity. When someone wants to get married to you they do not wait for work but they go out to look for a job. They do not wait to send cv’s but they can even work where no other person could work at. Do not be attracted to slayers but be attracted to hustlers.
Men who love sex before marriage are slayers and not hustlers. All they want to do is to eat you and you will never eat anything from them. Runaway from such men who do not respect you.

Runaway from men who break their principles only to sleep with you because he will break principles of marriage when he’s married to you. Men who do not respect you when they are not married to you will not respect you in marriage. Runaway from men who will promise you the world saying that God confirmed but do not respect the very same voice that spoke. These are the men that you must run away from. There are those who are faithful to you and promise you marriage and 5 years down the line they still have not yet fulfilled their promise. They are not promise keepers. They are good at making promises but they are not good at keeping those promises. They are not good at making sure that those promises become fulfilled. Do not open your legs for someone who cannot sacrifice for you. Men who are ready to marry you are ready to face anything just to be with you.

They save up what is best after marriage and not before marriage. If they cannot keep their hands to themselves before marriage they will never keep their hands to themselves after marriage. If their hands can touch you before they marry you, those hands will touch other women whom they are not married to. A man who is afraid of touching your body before marriage will always be faithful to you. If they could not respect you before they married you, they will never respect any women whom they are not married to. If a man does not respect sex before marriage they will never respect you. If they can break simple principles with you they will break them with someone else. Be with a man who is afraid of the Word of God. If a man gets into fornication they will be involved in adultery. Lazy men love sex.

There are men who love to plant anywhere and then come back to live their lives as if they did not plant anything. They are good at planting but bad when it comes to watering. These are men that you should run away from. Before you get involved with someone whether born-again or not you need to check first what kind of a person is he. You need to be with someone who will respect you and want you to be on the other side.

When I am talking about the other side I mean that there are people who are already eating the holy of holies while they are outside the holy of holies because you as a lady you have opened the veil. Holy of holies is that side in marriage. You have taken what was supposed to be in a marriage and you have brought it outside marriage. These are things that we need to stop practicing.
Sexual sin is not the same as lying. God can bear with someone who lies than someone who engages in sexual sin. Sodom and Gomora were not destroyed because of people who were lying or jealous but because of sexual sin. If there is sin that God hates is sexual sin. Sexual sin is masturbation, sex before marriage, homosexuality, adultery, fornication, and lust. These are sexual sins that God cannot bear with.

This is the best tool that the devil uses when it comes to Christians. When the devil gets you in lying or jealousy, he feels like he has not achieved what he needs to do. He wants what will destroy your soul, your temple. He wants what will destroy your body, your soul, and your spirit. What will permanently put you down and not get up again? He wants something that he knows will connect you with so many people.
When you lie with your neighbour you do not become one with him but when you sleep with him you become one with him. This is the easiest way that the devil can use to interchange sin amongst people. This is the simplest way that the devil can use to make generational curses to go around people. You find that you sleep with someone who has been sleeping around with different people and all of you end up being connected as one. Physically it may seem to be far but spiritually so it is very close. The mission of the devil is to ensure that we end up being connected all of us as one.

Many people that make decisions based on feelings they make wrong decisions. If you know that you make wrong decisions when you are in hormones cut-off being in that position. Make a decision before you even have a relationship. Instead of having campaigns of stopping abortions let us rather have campaigns of sex before marriage is a sin of which it is the root-cause of abortions. Before we even go to sex before marriage the problem starts at what we watch on tv’s and what we talk about. Some of you are connected to your families or to those who are in the graveyards. Make sure that before you open your legs it is God who has blessed and you are married because God cannot bless you while you are still connected to different people. Before God can bless you he disconnects you first with your past but God cannot disconnect you while you know the truth and still doing the wrong.

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